Supporting your Loved Ones
When someone is contemplating suicide, they may show changes in the way they act, think, or behave.
Supporting your Loved Ones
When someone is contemplating suicide, they may show changes in the way they act, think, or behave.
People contemplating suicide may do the following:
Looking for ways to end their lives, including searching online for possible methods
Withdrawing from activities,
Isolating themselves from family, friends, and loved ones
Sleeping too much or too little
Saying goodbye to others
Giving away valued possessions
Threatening to hurt or kill oneself or talking about wanting to hurt or kill oneself
Feeling hopeless
Feeling rage or uncontrolled anger or seeking revenge
Acting recklessly or engaging in risky activities - seemingly without thinking
Feeling trapped - like there's no way out
Increasing alcohol or drug use
Experiencing dramatic mood changes
Becoming aggressive
Seeing no reason for living or having no sense of purpose in life
Someone with suicidal thoughts may talk about:
Ending their life
Feeling hopeless
Having no reason to live
Being a burden to others
Feeling trapped
Unbearable pain (physical or emotional)
Death, dying, or suicide when these actions are out of the ordinary for the person
Tips for starting a conversation:
Listen with empathy and without judgment.
Ask how you can help.
Keep it casual.
Let them open up at their pace.
Do not keep suicide a secret. Let the person know that you can help, but need to involve a trusted adult.
Encourage them to reach out for help.
Encourage them to use one of the suicide phone numbers if they need help.